“So little friend, you’ve done it. Now what would you like to become?” pg. 194. In the beginning of the book, the herbalist’s wife is talking to Jin as he waits for his mother, and she tells him that it is easy to become whatever he wants to, as long as he is willing to give up his soul. Years later, she returns to him. This time she exclaims that he has succeeded in giving up his soul and can now become whatever he wants to. But what does she mean by give up your soul?
The same day that the herbalist’s wife returned to Jin, he had just gravely disrespected and insulted his two Asian friends that he had known since the fifth grade. This was after one of the white boys in his class asked Jin not to ask his friend on any subsequent dates because, “…She’s a good friend and I want to make sure she makes good choices, you know? We’re almost in high School. She has to start paying attention to who she hangs out with.” Pg. 179. He is implying that Jin is not the type of guy Amelia should be hanging out with but does not give any specific reasons for this. Even without telling Jin any reasons, Gene Yang has done a great job of placing this character in strategic positions to observe Jin being bullied an outcast throughout school. So, his main reason for not wanting Jin to date his friend is because he is “different” and hangs out with “different” people. This is an extremely painful thing for anyone to hear, especially in such a tumultuous time as middle school. The way Jin then treats his friends is a metaphor for him beginning to distance himself from his Asian culture by denouncing all his connection to it. Would perspectives change if he acted just like everyone else?
In the chapters leading up to the “big reveal” Danny is talking to his basketball coach about how his cousin Chin-Kee always ruins his relationship with his classmates when he comes to visit, and that he has been to a different high school every year. After reading to the end of the book, I realized that Chin-Kee was a euphemism for Jin’s Asian heritage becoming apparent to his classmates. He will be able to uphold a façade of whiteness for a time, but eventually, all the stereotypes catch up with him and begin to permeate every interaction he has. The way that Chin-Kee is so obnoxious, the way he always puts himself at the center of attention, but most of all, the way he makes Jin want to isolate himself to hide him away from everyone. All of these things humiliate Jin more than anything, all he wants is to be recognized as no different from everyone else. He wants to be seen as a white kid.
This problematizes the experience of innumerable immigrants and immigrant children who are trying to begin a new life in America. They come for the promise of a melting pot and a better life. Often, they are met with resistance to being accepted, whether it be direct or unintentional, by the predominant white culture here. We call ourselves a Melting Pot, but people are still forced to change themselves to fit into society like it is a puzzle.